Abuse Checklist for Perpetrators

Do you…

  1. threaten your partner?
  2. “lose it” very quickly?
  3. get jealous for no reason?
  4. get physically violent to your partner or others (punching, grabbing and pushing)?
  5. make financial decisions without consulting your partner?
  6. think your opinion is the only one that counts?
  7. out your partner down (insults, belittling comments – too thin / fat / ugly)?
  8. always criticise your partner?
  9. feel like your partner makes you do these things?
  10. feel sorry and confused after the abuse occurs?

If you have answered “yes” to any of these questions then you may find the following links helpful.