- threaten your partner?
- “lose it” very quickly?
- get jealous for no reason?
- get physically violent to your partner or others (punching, grabbing and pushing)?
- make financial decisions without consulting your partner?
- think your opinion is the only one that counts?
- out your partner down (insults, belittling comments – too thin / fat / ugly)?
- always criticise your partner?
- feel like your partner makes you do these things?
- feel sorry and confused after the abuse occurs?
If you have answered “yes” to any of these questions then you may find the following links helpful.